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How to Be Resilient: 8 Steps to Success When Life Gets Hard

  “Stick with it!” “Be resilient!” “Never give up!” I see a lot of stuff about resilience, persistence and grit. What I don’t see is a lot of legitimate info on how to actually increase those qualities. How can we be more resilient? How can we shrug off huge challenges in life, persist and — in the end — succeed? So I looked at the most difficult scenarios for insight. (Who needs resilience in easy situations, right?) When life and death is on the line, what do the winners do that the losers don’t? Turns out surviving the most dangerous situations has some good lessons we can use to learn how to be resilient in everyday life. Whether it’s dealing with unemployment, a difficult job, or personal tragedies, here are insights that can help.   1) Perceive And Believe “The company already had two rounds of layoffs this year but I never thought they would let me go.” “Yeah, the argument was getting a little heated but I didn’t think he was going to hit me.” The first thing to do when facing d

9 Ways Tough Times Make You More Successful in Life

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  Whether it’s depression, financial hardship, health problems, or other struggles, there’s a hidden benefit to overcoming adversity and battling your way through tough times: when you do make it through, the lessons you learned along the way will stick with you and help you become more successful in life. Here’s why the phrase “anything that doesn’t kill you makes you stronger” really does ring true: 2.  YOU FIND OUT WHO REALLY HAS YOUR BACK. 1.  YOU LEARN HOW TO ASK FOR HELP. When times are good, you’re totally fine being independent and never having to ask anyone for help. But sometimes that can hold you back. Asking for help reminds us that an extra hand never hurts, and it reminds us that there’s nothing shameful in that.You never again take anything for granted One you realize what true difficulty means, you’ll learn to appreciate all of the good things in your life, large and small. That positive outlook and gratitude will take you far. Too often, people you thought you could de

Turn A Difficult Situation Into A Better One

  Turn A Difficult Situation Into A Better One The beauty of life is that it is full of unpredictable situations that make it an adventurous journey. It does not matter whether situations are favorable or difficult, time does not come to stand still. The fact is that, situations do not remain exactly the same throughout the life. Sometimes situations are in your favor but other times it becomes really difficult and never seems to be ending. However, to ensure success in life, you need to turn difficult situations into a better one. Difficult situations come into the lives of each and every person sooner or later. You cannot find any successful person who can claim of not going through difficult situations in their entire lives. What differentiates the successful person from others is their approach to handle the difficult situations to their own advantage. In the face of difficult situations, there are two options in front of you. One is to pamper the difficult situations by having the

7 Steps To Accept Tough Situations In Life

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  7 Steps To Accept Tough Situations In Life There’s a mysterious place called Octopus Springs in Yellowstone National Park.  Octopus Springs is one of the unique places on Earth that’s labeled an  “extreme environment.”  For life to exist here it’s poised with ‘against all odds’ defying challenges.  The fact that life can even exist at all is nothing short of a miracle. But life does exist.  Against all odds, it finds a way. Humans have more in common with these extreme environments than we might initially think.  Although we have water, sunlight, electricity, heat, and shelter, there are still periods of our lives – sometimes long unbearable periods – that we wonder how life can be so cruel, hard and impossible. So uninhabitable. Take a look at the 4 dreaded D’s of life, any one of them alone is enough to collapse us to our knees. The 4 dreaded D’s: Death (Have you recently lost a loved one?) Disease (Are you sick? Or is a loved one sick?) Divorce (This one is tough too, it’s like an

10 Things To Remember When Going Through Tough Times

   10 Things To Remember When Going Through Tough Times Perhaps you’re not having the best week… or month… or year. I get it. There’s a lot of people who’d like a refund on 2020.   Ahhh , if only.   So if you’re doing it tough right now, here’s ten truths to help you weather this ‘storm’ better, and emerge better off.  1- Dwelling on what you  don’t   want  works against what you  do want We all have our ideas of how things ‘should’ be. So when our plans derail and the reality we find ourselves in is a far cry from the one we’d worked for, it’s easy to get into a wrestling match with life. But the biggest thing that messes us up is not the external conditions of our lives, it’s the picture in our heads about how we think those conditions should be.  When you  let go  and accept your reality for all that it  is , you reclaim energy lost to the battle against what it  isn’t .  2- You’ve overcome tough times before. You will again. Sure they are not like the one you’ve dealt with now. But

10 Ways How to Overcome Challenges Life Throws at You

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  10 Ways How to Overcome Challenges Life Throws at You Life is full of its ups and downs. One day, you may feel like you have it all figured out. Then, in a moment’s notice, you’ve been thrown a curve ball. You’re not alone in these feelings. Everyone has to face their own set of challenges. Learning how to overcome challenges will help you stay centered and remain calm under pressure.   Everyone has their own preferences for how to face a challenge in life. However, there are a few good tips and tricks to follow when the going gets tough. Take your pick from the following list!     Photo by  RĂ©mi Walle  on  Unsplash     10 Ways to Overcome Challenges in Life 1. Make A Plan   While you don’t know what is going to happen in the future, you can always plan ahead. Look at the patterns in your life and see what challenges you’ve struggled with. Assess the optimal outcomes and make a plan for how you can achieve them.   If you work somewhere and can anticipate the types of challenges you m

Managing Daily Life During the COVID-19 Pandemic

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  Managing Daily Life During the COVID-19 Pandemic The coronavirus disease (COVID-19) pandemic has fundamentally changed our lives and the way society functions, likely having lasting effects. Without a doubt, trying to maintain a normal routine is difficult. It’s even more challenging for individuals with chronic diseases and disorders, as the very support systems they need – that is, the healthcare system – are focusing resources and efforts toward looking after patients infected by severe acute respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2). What is the coronavirus? COVID-19 results from SARS-CoV-2, which belongs to a broad group of viruses known as coronaviruses. 1  A virus is a submicroscopic infectious agent that replicates only inside the living cells of an organism. They can infect humans and animals, depending on the type of virus. Coronaviruses in humans are common and usually cause symptoms similar to those of the common cold. However, SARS-CoV-2 is a new virus originating